“Listening with your heart” per Warren Wiersbe

In his book “Caring People”, Warren Wiersbe talks about learning to Listen with your heart.  There are certain times that we need to just listen to people get their feelings and emotions out.  We may not agree and we may want to give them all kinds of great advice, but all they really need at that time is to unload.

In the Book of Job, we find Job at times saying things that were not accurate or best about his situation, about God and about his friends.  We find God just let him unload, and then, rather than correct him in all areas, God just redirected his attention to God and away from his situation.

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Often in ministry we understand that people are the problem.  No doubt about it.  We sin and we are sinners.  Sometimes though, like the Psalmist, we are just frustrated and want someone  to listen to our griping.  We are not agreeing to sin, we are agreeing to frustration.